What I give – and how much time I have


You want to help, listen, do something – but your time is limited.

This chapter will help you identify what you want to give and what you are truly capable of offering.


🛠️  Three steps

 

1. Make a small clarification – for yourself

  • Who do I want to give my time, help and attention to?

  • Why do I want to do this?

  • How much of it do I actually have?

→ You can give with clarity and moderation.


2. Make a small decision that matches your rhythm

  • I may help – but not always.

  • I may listen – but also take a break.

  • I may say: "I don't have much time today."

→ You may be kind – without losing yourself.


3. Make a small gesture to help you clarify things

  • Write down whom you want to give time to today.

  • Be honest with people about how long you can stay.

  • Take a small step, according to your own measure.


→ You may give – without overwhelming yourself.


🧾  Mini-exercise: What I want to give – and how much time I have

 

What I want to give Why? How much time do I have? My small step
Listening in a quarrel Because I want to help 10 minutes I say: "I’ll listen briefly."
Helping with a project Because I want to belong 30 minutes I say: "I’ll join for half an hour."
Playing with siblings Because I like him/her 15 minutes I say: "I'll play with you for a while."

 

→ You may give – with measure and effect.


🕊️  Closing impulse

 

You may help – without losing yourself.

You may listen – without overwhelming yourself.

You may give – with your own measure.

You may be kind – and still set boundaries.



Erstelle deine eigene Website mit Webador